Difference between Gratify and Pander

GRATIFY vs PANDER: NOUN

An illicit or illegal offer, usually to tempt.
An offer of illicit sex with a third party.
A person who furthers the illicit love-affairs of others; a pimp or procurer, especially when male. (Later panderer.)
Someone who procures customers for whores (in England they call a pimp a ponce)
A male bawd; a pimp; a procurer.
Hence, one who ministers to the evil designs and passions of another.
One who caters for the lusts of others; a male bawd; a pimp or procurer.
Hence One who ministers to the gratification of any of the baser passions of others.

To tempt with, to appeal or cater to (improper motivations etc.); to assist in the gratification of.
To offer illicit sex with a third party; to pimp.
Arrange for sexual partners for others
Yield (to); give satisfaction to

To appeal to (base emotions or less noble desires), so as to achieve one's purpose; to exploit (base emotions, such as lust, prejudice, or hate).
To play the pander for.

To please; give pleasure to; delight; satisfy; indulge.
To requite or reward voluntarily; also, to give a gratuity to.
Synonyms Gratify, Indulge, Humor. To gratify is a more positive act than to indulge or to humor. Gratify is most often used in a good sense; indulge, most often in a bad one. Humor expresses an easy or good-natured compliance or management, ordinarily neither weak nor evil: as, to humor a person's eccentricities.
Yield (to)
Give satisfaction to

Subjugate, Ravish, Sate, Exhilarate, Amuse, Excite, Arouse, Titillate, Satiate, Feast, Elate, Malignity, Pander, Indulge, Satisfy

Divest, Obey, Bend, Abide, Appeal, Cede, Accommodate, Satisfy, Pandar, Fancy man, Procurer, Pimp, Ponce, Indulge, Gratify

Tantalize, Subjugate, Ravish, Sate, Exhilarate, Amuse, Excite, Arouse, Titillate, Satiate, Feast, Elate, Malignity, Pander, Satisfy

Please, Meet, Assign, Comply, Obey, Bend, Abide, Appeal, Accommodate, Satisfy, Pandar, Fancy man, Pimp, Ponce, Gratify

So why not continue to pander to them?
Democrats lose elections is that they pander to female voters instead of being manly and tough.
Pander, this soundbank craves to awake the harder side of your Access Virus TI!
Not that Noah is impressed with most of Clinton's pander prowess.
But be warned: Gen Z has little patience for companies who pander.
Pander Bear Gonna need and even bigger clown car this year.
Pander J, Heusinkveld M, van der Straaten T, et al.
Fuck you Elizabeth Warren, go pander to someone else!
We cannot just pander or engage in mythological discussions.
The first thing you learn in marketing is to know who your target audience is, and then pander pander pander.